Venus Test — Eliana Kirich

This test helps assess the strength and balance of Venus energy in your cognitive patterns, focusing on themes of beauty, love, relationships and pleasure. Select the option that best reflects your current state. Please, answer honestly

1. I love taking care of my body, face, hair

A) yes, I have consistent rituals that bring me joy
B) I try, but it often feels rushed or inconsistent
C) I usually don’t have time for this

2. I value softness and vulnerability in myself and others

A) yes, I see it as a strength
B) sometimes, but often I find myself seeing it as weakness and lack of character
C) rarely, it is easier for me to value strength and stamina in people and myself

3. I prioritize my beloved daily rituals above other tasks

A) yes, absolutely
B) I try, but often feel distracted or guilty after
C) rarely, usually I get caught up in tasks and don’t have time to do anything for myself

4. Last time I truly enjoyed a sensory experience (touch, taste, smell, etc.)

A) today
B) it’s been a while
C) I can’t remember the last time

5. I always decorate my home with flowers and beautiful things

A) yes, it is part of who I am
B) sometimes, when I have free time or energy
C) rarely, as it doesn’t feel important to me, I am more into the practical side

6. I express love openly in relationships

A) yes, without hesitation
B) sometimes, but it depends on the situation, usually when I am sure I am loved
C) rarely, as it feels vulnerable or uncomfortable

7. I receive compliments from others

A) easily and with gratitude
B) I feel awkward and try to return a compliment right away
C) I try but in reality usually dismiss or deflect them

8. I prioritize joy over productivity

A) always
B) sometimes, but productivity usually wins
C) rarely — I focus almost entirely on being productive as I need tangible results in my life

9. I handle conflicts in relationships

A) calmly and with empathy for all involved
B) it depends; sometimes I avoid it or get defensive
C) I find it very challenging and often feel overwhelmed

10. Talking about my personal style and appearance

A) I enjoy expressing myself through my style
B) I put some effort into it but it is not that I feel very inspired doing it
C) I don’t prioritize it at all

11. When I am in restaurant I quickly choose what I want

A) yes, I know right away what I want to order
B) it takes time, I doubt sometimes
C) I am not sure what I truly want so I might order what others ordered

12. I find time for activities that bring me pleasure

A) always, it’s part of my routine
B) occasionally, but it feels like a luxury
C) rarely, as I feel too busy or guilty

13. Feeling myself in the present moment (not thinking about the past or the future)

A) is natural to me
B) sometimes I manage, but my mind often wanders
C) rarely, as usually I’m focused on the past or future

14. The first thing I always notice is beauty and elegance, no matter where I am or whom I meet

A) yes, I hardly notice any downsides, friends say I should be more critical
B) sometimes, but very soon I get distracted by disadvantages
C) no, the first things I see are drawbacks, only then I notice good things

15. I view my body and physical presence

A) with love and appreciation
B) with neutrality—it’s just there
C) with criticism or discomfort

16. I handle moments of guilt or shame

A) with lots of love and tenderness towards myself, forgiving myself right away
B) I struggle but try to learn from them
C) I dwell on them and feel stuck for some time

17. In bed with my lover

A) I speak openly about what I like and how I want to be touched in the process
B) I mention what I like but not always
C) I think in a good relationship we should feel each other without words

18. I appreciate the rhythm and flow of relationships, allowing them to evolve naturally

A) yes, I embrace changes and don’t resist the flow
B) sometimes, but I resist or overthink them
C) rarely, as I struggle with uncertainty or change

19. I can be stubborn and demanding with people

A) never, I always maintain friendly relations even if we drift apart
B) sometimes, when it is obviously too much
C) yes, because otherwise, things won’t get done

20. Usually people say that I eat

A) too slowly
B) nobody ever mentioned this
C) usually I finish first when others are still eating

21. I see sex

A) as a sacred dance between god and goddess
B) as an act of pleasure
C) as an act of passion

22. I receive presents and help from others

A) with gratitude
B) with gratitude but then feeling that I owe something back
C) I honestly struggle with this, I like helping and giving presents more than receiving

Results:

A) Selected: 0

B) Selected: 0

C) Selected: 0

All A’s: Congratulations! Your Venus energy is well-integrated, bringing balance, beauty, and joy to your life.

Mostly B’s: Venus cannot express her energy through you to the fullest, give her more attention.

Mostly C’s: Your Venus energy feels blocked or neglected. Consider focusing on self-love and pleasure to reconnect with this vital force.

You can study separate answers to determine which ones you have to put more work with.

And I invite you to enroll in my Moon & Venus Lifestyle Practicum, where you will nurture your Venus and restore feminine energy balance. Also check my session Personal Venus for the full analysis of Venus in your Birth Chart.

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